Rethinking the Pursuit of Love

In a world obsessed with finding love, perhaps the key is to first discover the love within ourselves. Contrary to common belief, happiness and contentment aren’t solely dependent on finding a partner; rather, they begin with self-fulfillment.

Our attractions are often drawn to those who share our interests. To cultivate love, cultivate hobbies. In my 35+ years at The Little Theatre of NSB, I’ve witnessed theater enthusiasts not only bonding over their love for the stage but also forming lasting romantic connections.

In a playful attempt at matchmaking, I invite you to the February show, February show, ‘9 to 5: The Musical’ (Feb 22 – Mar 10)(Feb 22 – Mar 10) at our beloved theatre. Consider gifting tickets to someone special, a friend seeking company, or gather a group for a shared experience. The choice is yours, and perhaps a special someone awaits in the audience.

Let me share a fascinating historical tidbit: the standing ovation’s origin dates back to 1743 during Messiaen’s London Stage. King George II’s response to Handel’s ‘Hallelujah Chorus’ set the precedent. A standing ovation today is a chance to reciprocate that historical appreciation with a gracious bow.

Surround yourself with inspiring individuals who encourage exploration. Whether it’s a shared love for fishing, reading, painting, or any other inspiring pursuit, having a supportive partner enhances the journey. As my grandpa wisely said, you’ll know when you’re in love – it’s a feeling that speaks for itself.

Reflecting on my own life, I find joy in my husband, who doubles as my favorite hobby. From horseback riding to roller-skating in our youth, to our shared love for acting and dancing, we’ve built a life of love and laughter, surrounded by our vibrant family.

Remember, lasting love begins with selflove. Embrace the journey of self-discovery, and watch as love naturally blooms within and spreads to those around you.

Karin Jenkins is a Licensed Esthetician, Makeup Artist, and the author of the book, “Pageant Land and the Family Who Lived There.” She has been involved in all aspects of the beauty industry and in show business for over 30 years. Karin is the mother of two and the grandmother of four. She and her husband David co-own the local family business - Applause Salon in New Smyrna Beach. (386) 426-5454

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